Welcome to Purple Casket Campaign
Support, education, advocacy, and hope for individuals and families impacted by domestic violence.
Our Mission
Purple Casket Campaign exists to increase awareness, provide education, connect individuals and families to resources, and support healing for those impacted by domestic violence. We believe every person deserves safety, dignity, support, and the opportunity to move from crisis to stability.
Why This Campaign Matters
Violence must stop.
Too many families are suffering behind closed doors, hidden in the back bedrooms of homes where fear lives in silence.
Domestic violence often hides behind a mask — a mask of normalcy that conceals pain, control, and abuse.
It is time to unveil that mask.
We must build the courage to save lives, speak truth, and protect those who feel they have no voice.
We must shout from the rooftops until our communities listen, until our government hears us, and until stronger protections and laws are in place for survivors.
Silence protects abuse.
Courage saves lives.
Purple Casket Campaign stands to bring awareness, education, and change to our communities so that every survivor knows they are not alone.
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Why This Work Matters
Violence must stop.
Too many families are suffering behind closed doors, hidden in the back bedrooms of homes where fear lives in silence.
Domestic violence often hides behind a mask — a mask of normalcy that conceals pain, control, and abuse.
It is time to unveil that mask.
We must build the courage to save lives, speak truth, and protect those who feel they have no voice.
We must shout from the rooftops until our communities listen, until our government hears us, and until stronger protections and laws are in place for survivors.
Silence protects abuse.
Courage saves lives.
Purple Casket Campaign stands to bring awareness, education, and change to our communities so that every survivor knows they are not alone.
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Need Help Now
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you believe your phone, computer, or internet activity may be monitored, consider using a trusted phone, a public computer, or contacting a hotline directly.
National Human Trafficking Hotline
📞 888-373-7888
💬 Text: 233733 (BEFREE)
Advocates can provide crisis assistance, safety planning, and connections to local services.
Helpline for Native Americans and Alaska Natives
📞 844-762-8483
Video Phone for Deaf and Hard of Hearing
📞 855-812-1001
988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
📞 Call or Text 988
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Community Support Partner
The Purple Casket Campaign recognizes the work of organizations supporting survivors of trafficking and abuse.
Bishop Donna Hubbard — Woman at the Well Transition Center
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Confidential Hotline & Support Resources
🚨 If you are in immediate danger, call 911. These hotlines are confidential and available 24/7.
Trained advocates are available around the clock to listen, provide support, and connect you with local resources — at no cost to you.
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Text Support
Text START to 88788
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National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline
Call: 866-311-9474
For young people experiencing abuse or wanting to learn about healthy relationships.
Your safety matters. All hotlines listed are confidential. You do not have to share your name to get help.
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Your Privacy & Safety
Use this quick-navigation hub to jump directly to the specific support resources you need.
Get Help Now
Hotlines, advocates, and confidential support available 24/7.
Safety Planning
Tools and guidance to help protect yourself or someone you care about.
Local & National Resources
Shelters, legal aid, counseling, and community support near you.
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Safety Planning
Safety planning is an important step for anyone experiencing abuse or preparing to leave a dangerous situation. Every situation is different, and survivors should make decisions based on what is safest for them and their children.
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Download Your Personal Safety Plan
The Purple Casket Campaign has created two fillable safety plan documents — one for survivors and one for community members, faith leaders, and volunteers. Download, complete privately, and store in a safe place.
Planning Safe Routes
Knowing your exits and escape routes before a crisis is one of the most important steps in safety planning. Consider the following:
- Identify all exits in your home, workplace, school, or any place you spend time regularly
- Know which rooms to avoid during a conflict — especially rooms with potential weapons or no exits
- Practice your route when it is safe to do so, so it becomes second nature
- Keep essentials accessible — keys, phone, wallet, and important documents near an exit
- Establish a code word with a trusted person so they know to call for help or come get you
- Plan transportation — know in advance how you will leave: your own car, a rideshare, a trusted friend, or public transit
- Identify safe destinations along your route: a trusted friend or family member's home, a domestic violence shelter, a church or community organization, a police station, a hospital, or a public place like a library or café
- Save contacts discreetly — store hotline numbers and trusted contacts under neutral names in your phone
When searching for help online:
- Use a safer device if possible
- Clear browsing history if safe to do so
- Delete cookies if needed
- Avoid saving passwords on shared devices
- Be cautious when using location sharing
- Sign out of accounts when using public or shared computers
Basic Steps to Protect Your Internet Safety
- Use a trusted device if possible, such as a library or friend's computer.
- Use private or incognito browsing mode to prevent your activity from being saved locally.
- Regularly clear your browsing history, cookies, and cached data.
- Always sign out of personal accounts immediately after use.
- Avoid using the "Remember Me" or "Save Password" features on shared devices.
- Disable location services and GPS sharing on your devices when not strictly necessary.
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Types of Abuse
Abuse is not always physical. It can also be emotional, psychological, sexual, financial, digital, spiritual, reproductive, or verbal — all are serious and all matter.
Physical abuse
- Hitting, slapping, punching, choking, pushing, kicking, biting
- Bruises, black eyes, broken bones, bruised ribs, unexplained injuries
- Blocking doorways, preventing escape, throwing objects, damaging property
- Claiming repeated injuries were "accidents" or "falls"
Emotional / Psychological abuse
- Constant criticism, humiliation, blaming, threats, intimidation
- Gaslighting, making you question your memory or sanity
- Using children, fear, guilt, or shame to control your choices
- Threatening self-harm or threatening to take the children
Financial abuse
- Controlling the bank account, paycheck, debit card, or credit access
- Giving an allowance and demanding change back
- Preventing employment, education, or transportation
- Opening accounts in your name or ruining your credit
Spiritual abuse
- Using Scripture or faith to justify abuse or force silence
- Telling a survivor the abuse is their fault because they are "not submissive"
- Blocking church attendance, ministry, or spiritual support
- Using pastors, leaders, or faith language to pressure someone to stay unsafe
Sexual abuse
- Forced sexual activity, coercion, threats, reproductive control
- Humiliation, pressure, or punishment related to intimacy
Digital abuse
- Checking your phone, tracking your location, reading emails or texts
- Monitoring social media, passwords, calls, or browser history
Social / Isolation abuse
- Keeping you away from family, friends, coworkers, church, or support systems
- Controlling where you go, who you see, and what you say
Stalking
Repeated surveillance, unwanted contact, harassment, fear-based monitoring
Reproductive coercion
Controlling pregnancy, birth control, or reproductive choices
Teen dating abuse
Controlling behavior, jealousy presented as love, intimidation, isolation, or harm
Abuse is about power and control — not love. If you feel unsafe, help is available. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788.
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What Is Domestic Violence
Domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence (IPV), is a pattern of abusive behavior used to gain or maintain power and control over a spouse, partner, or loved one. Abuse may be physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, financial, spiritual, or psychological.
The Purple Casket Campaign exists to raise awareness, provide education, and connect individuals and families with resources, support, and pathways to safety, healing, and hope.
Forms of Abuse
Physical Abuse
Hitting, choking, pushing, restraining, or any unwanted physical force
Emotional & Verbal Abuse
Humiliation, insults, threats, intimidation, and manipulation
Sexual Abuse
Forced sexual activity, coercion, or reproductive control
Financial Abuse
Controlling money, employment, transportation, or access to resources
Digital Abuse
Monitoring devices, tracking location, controlling passwords, online harassment
Spiritual Abuse
Using religion or faith to shame, pressure, silence, or control
Stalking
Repeated surveillance, unwanted contact, harassment, or fear-based monitoring
Coercive Control
A pattern of behavior that seeks to take away liberty or freedom and strip away sense of self
Abuse is not always physical. All forms of abuse are serious and all matter.
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Technology-Facilitated Abuse
Technology can be used as a tool of control and surveillance.
Examples Include
Tracking a survivor using phone GPS, AirTags, or shared apps
Monitoring messages or social media accounts
Installing spyware or monitoring software
Threatening to share private photos or information
Impersonating someone online
Harassment through repeated messaging or posts
AI-generated altered images used for intimidation
Digital safety awareness is an important part of modern safety planning.
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Domestic Violence & Financial Abuse
Financial abuse is one of the most common yet least recognized forms of domestic violence. It occurs when an individual uses money, employment, or financial resources as a way to control or manipulate another person.
This type of abuse can prevent survivors from leaving unsafe situations by limiting their financial independence and access to essential resources.
Financial Abuse by the Numbers
99%
Of domestic violence cases involve some form of financial abuse
Little to None
Financial resources many survivors have when leaving an abusive relationship
#1 Barrier
Financial control is one of the most powerful tactics used to maintain long-term dependence
Common Forms of Financial Abuse
Controlling access to bank accounts or household income
Preventing a partner from working or maintaining employment
Taking or withholding paychecks
Opening credit accounts or loans without permission
Accumulating debt in the survivor's name
Monitoring or restricting everyday spending
Forcing financial decisions that benefit the abuser
Over time, these actions can severely damage a survivor's financial stability and independence.
Long-Term Financial Impact
Even after leaving an abusive relationship, survivors may face significant financial challenges.
Damaged credit history
Difficulty securing housing
Employment disruptions
Legal financial obligations
Debt created by the abuser
Supporting Financial Independence
Many survivor support programs focus on rebuilding financial independence through:
Financial literacy education
Workforce development and employment training
Budgeting and money management skills
Credit rebuilding support
Housing stability resources
These programs help survivors move from crisis toward long-term independence and stability.
Financial Safety Planning
Financial abuse can keep survivors trapped. In my own situation, he controlled the bank account, gave me an allowance, and expected the change back. Survivors often have to think carefully and creatively in order to prepare for safety.
Possible ways to save safely:
- Buy a little more than expected during shopping trips and quietly save the difference when possible
- Set aside small amounts of cash over time in a safe location
- Ask a trusted family member or friend for emergency support to help you leave
- Open a private account when safe to do so
- Speak privately to a bank manager and explain the situation
- Keep copies of important financial records, account numbers, and IDs in a secure place
- Use gift cards, cash envelopes, or a trusted third party if that is safer
Even small steps matter. A few dollars, one conversation, or one safe contact can become part of a survival plan.
Many banks and financial institutions will quietly assist survivors once they understand the circumstances. Financial preparation can be one of the most important steps toward freedom and safety.
Community Responsibility
Communities, employers, and organizations all play a role in helping survivors rebuild their financial security.
By increasing awareness, offering supportive resources, and expanding access to employment opportunities, communities can help break the cycle of abuse and empower individuals to rebuild their lives.
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Teen Dating Violence
Teen dating violence is real, and many teens do not recognize it right away. Some teens are told things that make abuse sound like love.
"If I love you, I need to know where you are."
"I'm only jealous because I care."
"If you really loved me, you would do what I say."
Love should never involve fear, control, intimidation, or harm.
Teen Dating Violence Statistics
Physical Dating Violence
About 1 in 12 high school students have experienced physical dating violence.
Sexual Dating Violence
About 1 in 10 high school students have experienced sexual dating violence.
Many teens do not tell anyone because they feel embarrassed, afraid, or unsure whether what they are experiencing is abuse.
Get Help
Love Is Respect — Teen Dating Violence Hotline
📞 Call: 1-866-331-9474
💬 Text: LOVEIS to 22522
Confidential support for teens and young adults experiencing relationship abuse. Available 24/7.
Source: CDC Youth Risk Behavior Survey. If you or someone you know is experiencing teen dating violence, help is available.
What We Offer
The Purple Casket Campaign provides survivor-centered programs, education, and community outreach to support individuals and families affected by domestic violence.
Survivor-Centered Education
Domestic Violence Awareness Presentations
Workshops & Speaking Engagements
Faith-Based & Community Conversations
Safety Planning & Resource Connection
Partnerships with Schools, Churches, Nonprofits & Businesses
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Survivor Support Services
Support services may include safety planning, referrals, advocacy, legal resources, counseling, support groups, crisis intervention, and community-based services designed to help survivors and families move from crisis toward stability. This campaign seeks to increase awareness of these support systems and help connect individuals with organizations equipped to assist.
Reasons May Include
- Fear of retaliation
- Children in the home
- Financial dependence
- Lack of housing
- Concern for pets
- Faith or family pressure
- Immigration concerns
- Military obligations
- Isolation or shame
- Fear of not being believed
Safety Planning Ideas
- Keep important documents accessible if safe
- Identify trusted people
- Create a code word
- Keep emergency numbers available
- Prepare a small bag if safe
Financial abuse is one of the most common reasons survivors feel unable to leave. Advocates can help connect survivors with financial resources, legal aid, and housing support even before a final decision is made.
Educational Note: You can still create a safety plan and talk to advocates even before making a decision.
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Warning Signs of High Risk
Seek help immediately if abuse includes any of the following.
Strangulation or choking
Threats to kill
Access to firearms
Stalking
Forced sex
Escalating violence
Obsessive jealousy
Isolation from friends or family
Harm to pets
Destruction of property
Threats involving children
These situations significantly increase the risk of serious injury or homicide. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
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When Shelters Are Full
Sometimes survivors reach out and learn that shelter space is limited. Support may still be available.
Nearby Referrals
Referrals to nearby shelters or agencies with available space
Hotel or Emergency Placement
Hotel or emergency placement options through local programs
Advocacy & Crisis Counseling
Advocacy and crisis counseling can begin immediately
Temporary Safety Planning
Safety planning support starts regardless of shelter availability
Community & Faith-Based Referrals
Local community or faith-based organizations may offer additional options
Even when a shelter bed is not immediately available, support can still begin through hotline advocates, local programs, and trusted community partners.
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Living in a Shelter: Protecting Your Safety and Moving Toward Healing
🚨 If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911 immediately.
Leaving an abusive relationship takes courage. If you are currently staying in a domestic violence shelter, your safety and confidentiality are extremely important. Shelters are designed to provide a safe, confidential space while you begin to rebuild your life and create a plan for the future.
Living in a shelter is a stepping stone, not the end of your story. It may feel frustrating at times, but it can also be the beginning of safety, stability, healing, and hope for you and your family. Do not beat yourself up. You are making a brave decision to protect your life and your family. This season may feel hard, but you can overcome it, and one day you may look back with gratitude that you chose safety.
Protecting Your Safety While Living in a Shelter
Domestic violence shelters keep their locations confidential to protect residents. To maintain safety for yourself and others:
- Do not share the shelter address with anyone outside the program
- Do not post your location or photos on social media
- Avoid telling friends or family where you are staying unless advised by staff
- Follow all shelter safety rules and confidentiality policies
- Turn off location sharing on your phone and social media apps
- Do not allow unauthorized visitors to the shelter
You must also tell your children not to let anyone know where they are staying — including their dad or anyone else in the family. It is imperative that you have this conversation with them.
If you believe someone may know your location, notify shelter staff immediately. Shelter advocates are trained to help protect your safety.
When an Abuser Tries to Contact You
Responding to or engaging with an abuser can cost you and your family your lives — by death.
When an abuser loses control, they may say whatever it takes to get you to come back. They know your heartstrings. They may apologize, promise change, cry, quote Scripture, use the children, offer money, or remind you of 'good times.'
Many survivors return because they feel overwhelmed, financially stuck, emotionally exhausted, or afraid they cannot make it. But when a survivor goes back, the abuse often becomes worse.
For your safety:
- Keep communication limited and documented if contact cannot be avoided
- Do not meet alone
- Tell an advocate, case manager, or trusted support person
- Review your safety plan when emotions feel heavy
- Remind yourself why you left
Advocates can help you understand your options and remain safe. Your safety and your children's safety must come first.
Services Typically Available Through Domestic Violence Shelters
Shelters often provide a wide range of support services for individuals and families. These may include:
- Emergency safe housing
- Safety planning
- Legal advocacy
- Court accompaniment
- Counseling and support groups
- Children's services
- Financial empowerment programs
- Job readiness support
- Transportation assistance
- Referrals to community resources
Ask your advocate what services are available at your specific shelter.
Legal Protection Options
Many survivors pursue legal protection while staying in a shelter.
Temporary Protective Orders (TPO)
A Temporary Protective Order can legally prevent an abuser from contacting or approaching you. A TPO may include:
- No contact provisions
- Removal from shared residence
- Custody protections for children
- Firearm restrictions
- Workplace protections
Georgia Protective Orders
National Network to End Domestic Violence
Georgia Legal Services Program
Shelter advocates can often help you file protective orders and prepare for court.
Childcare and Support for Children
Domestic violence shelters often provide services for children, including:
- Safe childcare services
- School enrollment assistance
- Trauma counseling for children
- Parenting support programs
- Youth activities and educational support
Children exposed to domestic violence may need specialized emotional support. Your advocate can help connect you with child-focused counselors and services.
Pet Safety Programs
Many survivors delay leaving abusive situations because of concern for their pets. Some shelters offer:
- On-site pet housing
- Partnerships with foster programs
- Veterinary assistance
Safe Havens Mapping Project
RedRover Safe Escape Grants
ASPCA Domestic Violence & Pet Safety
Counseling and Emotional Support
Healing from domestic violence is a process that takes time. Shelters often provide:
- Individual counseling
- Family counseling
- Trauma-informed therapy
- Support groups with other survivors
- Faith-based support (in some programs)
SAMHSA Mental Health Helpline
National Alliance on Mental Illness
988 Mental Health Crisis Line
Call or Text 988
Financial and Housing Support
Many survivors need help rebuilding financial stability. Programs may include:
- Emergency financial assistance
- Rental assistance programs
- Job training programs
- Credit repair guidance
- Transitional housing programs
National Domestic Violence Hotline Housing Help
HUD Housing Resources
National Domestic Violence Resources
Georgia Domestic Violence Resources
Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Georgia Commission on Family Violence
Georgia Crisis & Access Line
1-800-715-4225
Partnership Against Domestic Violence (PADV)
Ahimsa House (Pet Protection Program)
Confidential Support Through Purple Casket Campaign
If you need confidential guidance or support, you may contact Purple Casket Campaign.
Your safety and privacy are always respected.
You are not alone. Choosing safety for yourself and your children is an act of courage. Support, resources, and people who care are available to help you rebuild your life. Healing is possible. Hope is real. And your story is not over.
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Children & Domestic Violence
Children do not have to be physically assaulted to be harmed by domestic violence in the home.
Children May Experience
- Fear and anxiety
- Sleep problems
- Emotional distress
- Difficulty concentrating
- Behavior changes
- Long-term health effects
What Children Deserve
Children deserve safety and stability.
- Safety and truth
- Reassurance that abuse is not their fault
- Age-appropriate support and counseling
- Trusted adults they can talk to
- A safe environment to heal
Protecting a parent is not a child's responsibility. Children deserve safety, truth, and support.
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Same-Sex Partner & LGBTQ+ Relationship Abuse
Domestic violence can happen in any relationship, including same-sex relationships. Abuse is abuse, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation.
Emotional Abuse
Humiliation, threats, manipulation, and constant criticism
Threats of Outing
Threatening to reveal someone's identity or orientation without consent
Isolation
Cutting off from friends, family, and support systems
Digital Monitoring
Tracking devices, messages, and online activity
Financial Control
Controlling access to money and resources
Physical Violence
Any form of physical harm or intimidation
Sexual Coercion
Pressure or manipulation to engage in unwanted sexual acts
Abuse is abuse, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation. Everyone deserves respect, safety, and support.
Resources for LGBTQ+ Survivors
LGBTQ+ Support Hotlines & Organizations
- The National Domestic Violence Hotline — Call 1-800-799-7233 | Text START to 88788 | Trained advocates support all people including LGBTQ+ survivors, confidentially and without judgment.
- The Network/La Red — Call 1-800-832-1901 (Toll-Free) | 24-hour hotline for LGBTQ+, kink, and polyamorous survivors. Free, confidential, and peer-led.
- Anti-Violence Project (AVP) — Call 212-714-1141 | 24-hour hotline for LGBTQ+ survivors. avp.org
- Trans Lifeline — Call 877-565-8860 | Trans-led peer support for trans people. translifeline.org
- Trevor Project (Youth LGBTQ+) — Call 1-866-488-7386 | Text START to 678-678 | 24/7 support for LGBTQ+ young people.
- Love Is Respect (Teen/Young Adult) — Call 1-866-331-9474 | Text LOVEIS to 22522 | Support for dating abuse and healthy relationships.
- National LGBTQ Institute on IPV — Resources, safety planning, and survivor guides. lgbtqipvinstitute.org
- Find Local LGBTQ+ Centers — www.lgbtqcenters.org | Many offer support groups, case management, and shelter referrals.
- Find Local DV Shelters — www.domesticshelters.org | Federally funded DV organizations are required by law to serve all people regardless of gender identity.
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Immigrants & Non-Citizens: Know Your Rights
Domestic violence affects people of all immigration statuses. If you are an immigrant or non-citizen experiencing abuse, you have rights and there are resources available to help you — regardless of your documentation status.
You do not have to be a U.S. citizen to get help. Domestic violence shelters and hotlines serve everyone. Seeking help for abuse is not the same as a criminal matter and should not affect your immigration case.
How Abusers May Use Immigration Status as Control
- Threatening to report you to immigration authorities (ICE)
- Withholding or destroying your immigration documents
- Refusing to file or sponsor your immigration paperwork
- Threatening deportation to isolate and control you
- Telling you that you have no rights in the U.S.
Legal Protections Available to You
- VAWA Self-Petition — The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) allows certain immigrant survivors abused by a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident spouse, parent, or child to self-petition for immigration status — without the abuser's knowledge or consent. You do not need legal status to apply. File Form I-360 with USCIS.
- U Visa — Available to victims of certain crimes, including domestic violence, who have suffered abuse and are helpful to law enforcement. Provides temporary legal status and work authorization.
- T Visa — For survivors of human trafficking.
- Asylum — If you fear persecution in your home country, you may be eligible to apply for asylum.
Resources for Immigrant & Non-Citizen Survivors
- National Domestic Violence Hotline — Call 1-800-799-7233 | Text START to 88788 | Available in Spanish and 170+ languages through interpreter services. Confidential support for all people. thehotline.org
- Alliance for Immigrant Survivors — Advocacy, policy resources, and support for immigrant survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and trafficking. immigrantsurvivors.org
- USAHello — Domestic Violence Help for Immigrants — Plain-language guides in multiple languages on rights, safety planning, and resources. usahello.org
- VAWA Self-Petition Information (USCIS) — Learn about filing Form I-360 to petition for immigration status independently of your abuser. uscis.gov/humanitarian/abused-spouses-children-and-parents
- DomesticShelters.org — Immigrant Survivor Guide — Step-by-step guide for immigrant survivors including safety planning and legal options. domesticshelters.org
- Futures Without Violence — Resources and referrals for immigrant survivors. futureswithoutviolence.org
- Find Local DV Shelters — www.domesticshelters.org | Shelters serve all people regardless of immigration status.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. Emergency services are available to everyone regardless of immigration status.
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Abuse in Later Life / Older Adults
Elder abuse can happen in homes, by family members, caregivers, partners, or others in positions of trust. It may include physical harm, emotional abuse, neglect, abandonment, sexual abuse, or financial exploitation.
Physical Abuse
Unexplained bruises, repeated "falls," broken bones, or unexplained injuries
Financial Exploitation
Stealing money, pressuring for signatures, misusing benefits, accounts, or assets; sudden unexplained changes in finances
Neglect
Withholding medication, food, mobility help, or medical care; poor living conditions
Isolation
Cutting off contact with loved ones, church, neighbors, or normal routines; fear of caregivers
Emotional Abuse / Intimidation
Threats, yelling, humiliation, or controlling behavior
Dependence as Control
Using an elder's physical or financial dependence to maintain power
If elder abuse is suspected, contact local authorities or adult protective services. If there is immediate danger, call 911.
Resources for Elder Abuse
1-833-FRAUD-11
ncea.acl.gov
eldercare.acl.gov
dfcs.georgia.gov
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Pet Safety & Domestic Violence
No Survivor Should Have to Leave a Pet Behind
For many survivors, pets are family. Sadly, many victims delay leaving an abusive situation because they fear what may happen to their dog, cat, or other beloved pet. Purple Casket Campaign believes safety planning must include pets.
Protecting Survivors and Their Pets
Purple Casket Campaign supports national initiatives that help survivors protect both themselves and their beloved animals.
Why Pet Safety Matters
- Survivors often remain in danger longer because they do not want to abandon their pets.
- Pets are sometimes threatened, harmed, or used as a tool of control by abusers.
- A safe escape plan should include food, medication, vaccination records, leash, carrier, and emergency contacts for pets.
National Support Spotlight: Purina's Purple Leash Project
Purina, through the Purple Leash Project in partnership with RedRover, helps support domestic violence survivors and their pets by increasing access to pet-friendly domestic violence shelters and safe spaces. This work helps raise awareness that survivors should never have to choose between their own safety and the safety of their pets.
National Pet Safety Resources
RedRover — RedRover provides Safe Escape Grants to help survivors pay for temporary pet boarding and veterinary care when escaping abuse. The organization also helps domestic violence shelters create pet-friendly housing so survivors can bring their pets with them.
Purple Leash Project — Supported by Purina and RedRover, the Purple Leash Project raises awareness about the link between domestic violence and pet safety. The initiative helps expand the number of pet-friendly domestic violence shelters across the United States.
Safe Havens for Pets — Safe Havens for Pets maintains a national directory of programs that provide temporary housing for pets of domestic violence survivors. These programs allow pets to stay safely with foster families or partner organizations while survivors seek safety.
Ahimsa House (Georgia) — Ahimsa House serves survivors in Georgia by providing safe shelter, veterinary care, and protection for pets affected by domestic violence situations.
Pet Safety Planning Tips
- Keep copies of vaccination and medical records
- Prepare a pet emergency bag with food, medicine, leash, and favorite comfort item
- Identify a trusted friend, family member, foster, or shelter that can temporarily house your pet
- Include pets in your escape and safety plan
- Take photos and ownership records in case you need proof later
Message of Hope
Leaving abuse is hard enough. No one should have to leave a loyal companion behind in order to survive. Safety planning for survivors must also protect the animals who love them.
If you are in danger, reach out for help immediately and include your pets in your safety plan.
A Personal Note from Our Founder
"One of the hardest things I ever had to do was leave my dogs behind. I could not find anywhere for them to go, and I did not want to surrender them to the pound — that was the only option I was given. So I left them with my abuser. Later, I found out he killed one of them. I was devastated. Sometimes you have to put yourself first in order to help others. Please — include your pets in your safety plan. Resources exist. Ask for help before you leave, not after."
— Chyna McGarity, Founder, Purple Casket Campaign
This story is why pet safety planning is a core part of the Purple Casket Campaign's mission. No survivor should face this impossible choice alone.
Pet Safety Resources
safehavensforpets.org
redrover.org
ahimsahouse.org
aspca.org
thehotline.org | 1-800-799-7233
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Military Families, Veterans, and Service Members
Domestic violence and abuse can impact anyone — including military families, veterans, and even service members within the ranks.
While many people think of domestic violence only as abuse between spouses or partners, violence can also occur between soldiers themselves, including service members who experience abuse from fellow soldiers, partners who are also in the military, or within veteran households after service. The culture of silence, fear of retaliation, and concern about career consequences can make it extremely difficult for service members to report abuse or seek help.
The Purple Casket Campaign recognizes that abuse within the military community — including soldier-to-soldier violence — is a real issue that deserves awareness, support, and solutions.
Abuse Can Happen in Any Community
During my time interacting with military communities, I witnessed something that many people do not openly talk about. I saw soldiers — both men and women — who were experiencing abuse. Some were suffering from verbal and emotional abuse, while others were enduring physical violence. This is not something that should ever happen, especially to those who serve and sacrifice for our country. Yet the reality is that domestic violence can exist in any environment, including within military families.
Courage to Speak Up
Domestic violence thrives in silence. In many cases, individuals may feel pressure to remain quiet due to rank, fear of retaliation, shame, or the belief that speaking up could damage a career or family reputation. It takes tremendous courage and empathy to stand up against abuse. Survivors are often facing forces that have been taught, normalized, or learned over time. Breaking that cycle requires support, understanding, and a community willing to listen without judgment.
Domestic Violence in Military Families
Research has shown that domestic violence can impact military families due to many complex factors including combat stress, trauma exposure, deployment cycles, and reintegration challenges.
- Domestic violence occurs within both active duty and veteran households
- Both male and female service members may experience abuse
- Emotional, psychological, and verbal abuse are often underreported
- Survivors may hesitate to seek help due to fear of career consequences or stigma
Recognizing the problem is the first step toward protecting service members and their families.
A Survivor's Reality
There was a time in my life when I felt embarrassed, ashamed, and humiliated. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
Many people say, "You should have just left." But only a survivor understands what it truly takes to survive until the opportunity arises to leave safely.
Leaving is not always simple. Survivors must often wait until they can create a safety plan and protect their children.
When I was living overseas as a military spouse, I was told something that I will never forget. I was informed that my husband had to give permission for me to return to the United States. When he was asked, he said I could leave — but that I would not be able to take the children.
At that moment, I realized how powerless I felt. Back then I was simply considered a spouse with no real voice or control over my situation.
Why Military Survivors Often Cannot "Just Leave"
One of the most painful things survivors often hear is:
"Why didn't you just leave?"
But for many survivors — especially those connected to the military — leaving is not simple.
In military households and military communities, survivors may face additional barriers such as fear, isolation, retaliation, financial dependence, relocation, lack of support, concerns about rank or career consequences, and threats involving children.
Some survivors are far away from family, living overseas, or in environments where they feel they have little voice or no control over what happens next.
Others are made to believe that they have no rights, no options, and nowhere to go. For some, even asking for help feels dangerous. For others, the danger increases the moment they try to leave.
That is why many survivors stay in survival mode until the right opportunity arises and a safety plan can be put in place.
Leaving abuse is not weakness.
Surviving until there is a safe way out is not failure.
It is strategy. It is protection. It is survival.
The truth is this: Only the survivor knows what it takes to make it through each moment, each day, and each frightening situation until the time comes to leave safely.
The Purple Casket Campaign wants survivors to know:
- You are not weak.
- You are not foolish.
- You are not to blame.
You may have been doing everything in your power just to stay alive, protect your children, and make it to the day when freedom finally became possible.
That day matters. Your safety matters. Your story matters.
And if you are still trying to figure out your next step, please know this:
There is no shame in surviving. There is strength in making a plan. And there is hope on the other side of abuse.
"Decision Day"
D-Day — Decision Day
One night my husband came home intoxicated. During the argument he slapped me and I hit the floor. My son witnessed everything and screamed:
"Daddy! Daddy! Do not hurt Mommy!"
That moment changed everything.
Later that night while he slept on the couch, I took his gun and pointed it at his head. I was overwhelmed by pain, fear, and desperation and believed it was the only way to stop the violence.
But before I pulled the trigger, God stepped in. In that moment I heard in my spirit:
"No, my child. If you do this, the consequences will be horrific."
God showed me what would happen — my children placed in foster homes and separated, and my life spent in prison. Even though the moment was brief, the message was clear.
Choosing Safety Instead of Violence
That night I made a different decision. Instead of responding with violence, I chose to pursue legal action and do everything in my power to leave safely.
Eventually I was granted permission to leave. I did not want anything from him. I just wanted my children and myself to be safe and to return to the United States where I knew I could start over.
Support for Military Families, Veterans, and Service Members
If you are a military spouse, veteran, or service member experiencing abuse — help is available. You are not alone.
Military & Veteran Domestic Violence Resources
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Call: 800-799-SAFE (7233) | Text: START to 88788 | thehotline.org
Military OneSource
24/7 confidential support for service members and families | Call: 800-342-9647 | militaryonesource.mil
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Military resources and support | ncadv.org
Veterans Crisis Line
Dial 988 then Press 1 | Text: 838255 | veteranscrisisline.net
Family Advocacy Program (FAP)
A Department of Defense program that addresses domestic abuse within military families.
A Message to Survivors
- You deserve to be safe.
- Your children deserve to be safe.
- Domestic violence is not love.
- There is hope, and there is a path forward.
Our Commitment
The Purple Casket Campaign believes that every individual — including those who serve in our armed forces — deserves to live in a home free from violence and fear. No one should suffer in silence. Abuse is not a sign of weakness, and seeking help is an act of strength.
Seminar & Keynote Topics
- Life After Abuse: Rebuilding Your Self-Esteem
- Stepping Onto the Stage of Life
- Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship
A Word of Hope
As I reflect on all that I have been through, my prayer is that my story will help someone else find strength, wisdom, and courage.
If sharing what I survived helps even one person realize that they are not alone, that they deserve safety, and that there is still hope for their future, then my pain will not have been in vain.
I want survivors to know that healing is possible, starting over is possible, and a better life is possible.
You are worthy of peace.You are worthy of safety.You are worthy of real love.
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Faith, Church & Spiritual Safety
Faith can be a source of healing, comfort, and strength. However, faith should never be used to pressure someone to remain in abuse. In some cases, survivors are prevented from attending church or participating in spiritual communities. Faith should never be used as a weapon. Healthy faith communities support safety, healing, and dignity.
What Is Spiritual Abuse?
Spiritual abuse is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. It may involve using faith, scripture, religious beliefs, church leadership, or spiritual language to shame, silence, manipulate, pressure, or control another person.
- Using Scripture or faith to justify abuse or force silence
- Telling a survivor the abuse is their fault because they are "not submissive"
- Blocking church attendance, ministry, or spiritual support
- Using pastors, leaders, or faith language to pressure someone to stay unsafe
- Using prayer, forgiveness, or submission to avoid accountability
- Threatening spiritual consequences for seeking safety
"In my experience, church language was used against me, and I was told I was not submissive and that this was the reason for the abuse. My abuser also stopped me from going to and participating in church. Abuse is never justified by faith. A healthy spiritual community should protect, not silence, survivors."
Important Truths
- Abuse is not your fault
- Seeking safety is not a lack of faith
- Forgiveness does not remove accountability
- Spiritual abuse is real
- Church leaders should support safety, not silence abuse
Faith-Based Support
- Many faith communities offer domestic violence resources
- Faith-based counseling can support healing
- Spiritual leaders can help connect you to safety resources
- You can honor your faith while protecting yourself
Faith should support healing, safety, and accountability — never excuse abuse.
Resources for Spiritual Abuse & Faith-Based Support
faithtrustinstitute.org
Faith-based education and resources on domestic violence and sexual abuse
thehotline.org | 1-800-799-7233
24/7 confidential support for survivors
refugeforwomen.org
Faith-informed long-term care for survivors of trafficking and exploitation
focusministries1.org
Christian ministry supporting women and families affected by domestic violence
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Domestic Violence in the Workplace
Domestic violence can affect workplace attendance, productivity, concentration, emotional well-being, and personal safety. It may also create safety concerns for coworkers and employers when abusive behavior follows a survivor into the workplace. Employers, supervisors, and coworkers should understand the importance of trauma-informed responses, privacy, safety planning, and connection to appropriate support resources.
Workplace Support Options
Workplace Safety Planning
HR Reporting Guidance
Employee Assistance Programs
Counseling Referrals
Local Crisis Resources
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Domestic Violence & Housing Instability
Housing stability is one of the most urgent challenges faced by survivors leaving abusive relationships.
Domestic violence is widely recognized as a leading cause of homelessness for women and families in the United States. When individuals leave unsafe environments, they often must do so quickly, sometimes with little time to secure safe housing.
Without stable housing options, survivors may face difficult choices between safety and basic necessities.
Housing Challenges Survivors May Face
Limited financial resources
Damaged credit history
Difficulty securing rental housing
Safety concerns related to the abuser locating them
Lack of immediate emergency shelter availability
Access to safe housing is critical for survivors seeking to rebuild their lives.
Housing Stability and Recovery
Safe and stable housing significantly increases a survivor's ability to rebuild independence and long-term stability.
Communities and organizations can support survivors by expanding access to:
Emergency shelter programs
Transitional housing
Housing assistance programs
Rental stabilization resources
Community support networks
Housing security allows survivors and their families to move from crisis toward safety and long-term independence.
Housing Resources for Survivors
thehotline.org | 1-800-799-7233
Hotline advocates can help locate emergency and transitional housing
gcadv.org
Georgia shelter and housing resource locator for survivors
padv.org
Atlanta-area emergency shelter and transitional housing
211.org
Dial 2-1-1 or search online for local housing and emergency assistance
hud.gov/VAWA
Federal law protecting survivors from eviction and housing discrimination
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Domestic Violence, Trauma & Mental Health
Experiencing domestic violence can have significant emotional and psychological impacts.
Survivors often endure prolonged stress, fear, and trauma that may affect many areas of their lives. These experiences can influence emotional well-being, relationships, and daily functioning.
Recognizing the mental health impact of domestic violence is an important part of supporting survivors on their path to healing.
Trauma Responses
Survivors may experience a range of trauma-related responses, including:
Anxiety or persistent fear
Depression or emotional exhaustion
Difficulty concentrating or sleeping
Feelings of isolation or shame
Post-traumatic stress symptoms
These responses are often natural reactions to prolonged trauma and violence.
Pathways Toward Healing
Healing from trauma often involves access to supportive resources and compassionate care.
Counseling and mental health services
Trauma-informed care programs
Peer support groups
Faith-based counseling or spiritual guidance
Community-based support services
These resources help survivors rebuild confidence, emotional well-being, and a renewed sense of safety.
Building Supportive Communities
Increasing awareness about trauma helps communities better understand the full impact of domestic violence.
When communities expand access to supportive services and compassionate care, survivors have greater opportunities to move toward healing, stability, and long-term recovery.
Mental Health & Trauma Resources
samhsa.gov | 1-800-662-4357
Free, confidential 24/7 mental health and substance use treatment referrals
988lifeline.org | Call or Text 988
Free 24/7 crisis support for mental health emergencies
nami.org | 1-800-950-6264
Mental health education, support groups, and crisis resources
psychologytoday.com
Search for trauma-informed therapists near you
dbhdd.georgia.gov
Georgia Department of Behavioral Health & Developmental Disabilities
thehotline.org | 1-800-799-7233
24/7 support including emotional support and safety planning
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Domestic Violence Support Resources
If you or someone you know may be experiencing domestic violence, confidential help and support resources are available. You are not alone, and trained advocates are available to help individuals explore safety options and connect with local services.
If you believe you are in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency services.
National Support Resources
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Provides confidential support, safety planning assistance, and connections to local resources across the United States.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Provides 24/7 confidential emotional support for individuals experiencing emotional distress, crisis situations, or thoughts of self-harm.
RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline
Provides confidential support for survivors of sexual violence and connects individuals with local assistance.
Love Is Respect
Provides education and confidential support for teens and young adults experiencing dating abuse.
StrongHearts Native Helpline
A confidential domestic violence helpline for Native and Indigenous communities.
National Human Trafficking Hotline
Support and resources for individuals experiencing human trafficking.
Georgia Support Resources
Georgia Domestic Violence Hotline
Statewide crisis hotline and shelter referral support.
Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Provides education, advocacy, and connections to domestic violence programs across Georgia.
Partnership Against Domestic Violence
🌐 padv.org
Provides emergency shelter, legal advocacy, counseling, and survivor support services.
Women's Resource Center to End Domestic Violence
Provides crisis intervention, education, and community-based support.
Georgia 211
Connects individuals with housing support, food assistance, counseling, and local community resources.
Georgia Legal Aid
Provides legal information and free or low-cost legal assistance resources for eligible survivors.
If you believe your internet or device use may be monitored, consider using a trusted phone, a public computer, or contacting a hotline directly. Trained advocates can help individuals develop safety plans and connect with confidential support services.
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Domestic Violence & The Law
Domestic violence is a serious crime. Many acts of domestic violence can be charged as misdemeanors or felony offenses depending on the severity of the crime and applicable state law.
Felony Domestic Violence-Related Offenses May Include
Aggravated Assault
Causing serious bodily harm or using a deadly weapon against another person
Aggravated Battery
Intentional harmful or offensive physical contact causing serious injury
Strangulation
Impeding breathing or blood circulation — a serious indicator of escalating danger
Rape or Sexual Assault
Any forced or coerced sexual act without consent
Kidnapping or False Imprisonment
Unlawfully restraining or confining another person against their will
Aggravated Stalking
Repeated harassment combined with credible threats of harm
Repeated Stalking Offenses
Prior stalking convictions that elevate charges to felony level
Serious Violations of Protective Orders
Willful violations of court-issued protective or restraining orders
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For legal guidance, contact a local legal aid organization or domestic violence advocate. This information is for general awareness only and does not constitute legal advice.
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If You See or Suspect Abuse
Domestic violence often happens behind closed doors. Choosing not to act can allow abuse to continue. Speaking up may help save a life.
Do not become part of the abuse by being a bystander. You can save a life just by calling 911. Do not say you do not want to be involved — because once you know what you see or hear, doing nothing can leave someone in danger.
My neighbor saved my life and I did not even know she called. I also trained my children to use a passcode when I was in trouble so a neighbor would know to call the police. Later I learned my son remembered what to do and had slipped out of the house for help. You may think children do not know what is happening, but they often already know. They see, hear, remember, and carry it with them.
Call 911 If Urgent
If the situation appears immediately dangerous, call 911 right away. Do not wait.
Contact a Hotline
Call or text the National DV Hotline (1-800-799-7233) for guidance on how to help safely.
Offer Support Privately
Reach out privately and without judgment. Let them know you are there for them.
Help Connect to Resources
Help connect them to trusted hotlines, shelters, or advocacy organizations.
Do Not Ignore Warning Signs
Repeated signs of abuse should not be dismissed. Trust your instincts and seek guidance.
🚨 If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911 immediately.
- Take threats seriously
- Call 911 if someone is in danger
- Document what you witnessed if safe to do so
- Offer support without pressure or judgment
- Believe survivors and help connect them to resources
The Logo
A Symbol of Hope
The purple ribbon intertwined with the casket represents lives lost to domestic violence and the hope we carry forward in their memory.
Bold & Recognizable
Clean, modern typography paired with a powerful icon makes the PurpleCasketCampaign brand instantly identifiable across all platforms.
Purpose-Driven Design
Every element of the logo — the color, the shape, the tagline — reflects our unwavering commitment to waging war against domestic violence.
Why a Purple Casket?
Every day, a survivor wakes up and makes a choice — to live or to die. The purple casket is not just a symbol. It is a reality.
Purple Is the Color of Domestic Violence Awareness
Purple was chosen intentionally. It is the color the world has assigned to domestic violence awareness — a color that represents bruises unseen, voices unheard, and lives cut short. When you see purple in this campaign, you are seeing a declaration: we will not look away.
The Casket Is Not Abstract
Inside that casket is someone's child. Someone's mother. Someone's best friend. Someone's partner. Someone who laughed, loved, dreamed — and whose life was taken or nearly taken by the person who was supposed to protect them.
The casket is a warning. It is what happens when silence wins. It is what this campaign exists to prevent.
You Choose to Live
If you are reading this, you made a choice — consciously or not — to keep going. That choice matters. That choice is why this campaign exists.
We carry the memory of those we lost. We fight every day for the living. Choose to live. We are here with you.
— Purple Casket Campaign
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When You Feel There Is No Way Out
A Message of Hope from Survivor Advocate Chyna McGarity
There was a time in my life when I believed there was no way out.
During the years I experienced domestic violence, I was beaten down emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. I was constantly made to feel worthless and hopeless. I was threatened repeatedly and told that if I ever left, my abuser would harm or kill me and my family.
Fear like that can keep someone trapped for a very long time.
I was also afraid of what might happen to my children or even my pets if I tried to leave. These fears are very real for many survivors and can make the decision to leave extremely difficult.
At times I felt trapped between a hard place and a rock.
There were moments when I felt so broken and dehumanized that I believed death might be my only way out. I even thought about giving my children up for adoption because I felt so overwhelmed and believed they might be better off without me.
But my faith in God helped me begin to see a small light in the darkness.
Documenting the Truth
One thing that helped me begin to move forward was keeping a journal.
I wrote down what was happening — the abuse, the threats, the fear, and the pain. I documented the reality of what I was living through.
Sometimes when I shared my story, people did not believe me. Abuse often happens behind closed doors, and many survivors are not believed at first.
But documenting what was happening helped me find my voice and helped others begin to see the truth.
Keeping records, journaling, saving messages, taking photos, and telling trusted friends or family members what is happening can help protect you and may later become important evidence.
Verbal and Emotional Abuse Is Real Abuse
Many survivors say:
"He never hit me, but he calls me names, disrespects me, humiliates me, and dismisses everything I say."
It is important to understand that this is also abuse.
Verbal and emotional abuse can be extremely damaging. Being constantly criticized, called degrading names, controlled, threatened, or made to feel worthless can slowly destroy a person's confidence and sense of identity.
Physical wounds may heal, but emotional wounds can stay in your mind long after the words are spoken.
If someone continually insults you, threatens you, controls you, isolates you, or makes you feel afraid or worthless, that is not love.
That is abuse.
Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity, respect, and kindness.
Abuse Is Not Love
No one deserves to be hit, abused, humiliated, or controlled.
Abuse is not love.
Love should never involve fear, violence, intimidation, or constant disrespect. Everyone deserves to feel safe in their home, in their relationships, and in their lives.
During my experience with domestic violence, I slowly lost parts of myself. I was trying to survive every moment — every second, every day, every month, and every year.
When you are living in violence, your focus often becomes simply getting through the next moment safely.
Over time, I realized that I had to learn who I was again. I had to relearn self-love and rebuild my confidence and identity.
Many people say, "I would never stay in a situation like that." But the truth is, no one truly understands what a survivor is enduring unless they have lived it.
Survivors often endure more than people can imagine while they search for a safe way out.
One of the most important things we can do is teach our children early what love truly looks like — and what it does not look like.
Love is respect. Love is kindness. Love is patience. Love is safety.
If you know someone who may be experiencing abuse, encourage them. Remind them that they deserve better and that they deserve to live free from violence.
Making the Decision to Move Forward
Leaving was one of the hardest decisions I ever had to make.
I was afraid.
I was uncertain.
But once I made the decision, I pressed forward.
I was uncertain.
But once I made the decision, I pressed forward.
And if you are reading this today, I want you to know that you can press forward too.
Strength for Yourself and Your Children
For years I was told that as long as my children were okay, then I was okay.
But I came to realize something very important.
If I am safe, healthy, and strong, then I can show my children what strength looks like.
I can teach them that love should never involve fear or violence.
A Truth I Live By
My motto is simple:
Love is patient. Love is kind. And love should not hurt.
Scripture of Hope
Psalm 34:18 — "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
Get Support
If You Are in Crisis
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you are feeling overwhelmed or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 immediately.
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — Call or Text: 988 | https://988lifeline.org
- National Domestic Violence Hotline — Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) | Text START to 88788 | https://www.thehotline.org
Internet Safety Notice
If you believe your phone, internet use, or location may be monitored by an abuser, consider using a trusted device, a public computer, or contacting a hotline from a safe location when possible.
About Purple Casket Campaign
The Purple Casket Campaign is a survivor-centered domestic violence awareness initiative rooted in education, advocacy, and community support.
Why Purple?
Purple is the recognized color for domestic violence awareness. It represents courage, survival, and the strength of those who have endured abuse.
Why a Casket?
The casket represents the tragic reality that many lives are lost to domestic violence every year. Behind every statistic is a person — someone's mother, daughter, sister, friend, or neighbor. The purple casket symbolizes the lives that were taken too soon and reminds us why awareness, education, and action are so important.
This campaign exists so fewer families experience that loss.
About Chyna McGarity
Founder, Purple Casket Campaign
Chyna McGarity is the founder of the Purple Casket Campaign, a domestic violence awareness initiative focused on education, prevention, and survivor empowerment. Her work is deeply personal and rooted in her own journey of survival, healing, and advocacy.
After experiencing years of physical, emotional, sexual, financial, and spiritual abuse, Chyna made the life-changing decision to protect herself and her children and break the cycle of violence. Her abuser was both a police officer and Military Police, and over time the abuse escalated. She was isolated from family and friends, financially controlled, and prevented from practicing her faith. Injuries were often hidden beneath clothing, and threats were used to silence her.
Everything changed the day her son witnessed the abuse and screamed for it to stop. That moment became the turning point in her life.
Chyna began documenting the abuse and eventually presented evidence to military leadership. After returning to the United States and rebuilding her life, she later discovered her abuser was attempting to locate her in Atlanta. That was when she reached out to Partnership Against Domestic Violence (PADV).
During one of the darkest seasons of her life, PADV became what she describes as her guardian angel. More than twenty years ago, Chyna lived in the PADV Fulton County shelter. The organization provided safety, childcare, counseling, parenting support, legal advocacy, and financial assistance that helped her rebuild stability and independence.
Through healing and support, Chyna later returned to PADV as a PRN advocate and volunteer, helping other survivors navigate their path to safety.
Her experience highlights forms of abuse that are often misunderstood or hidden — including abuse within military families, financial control and economic abuse, spiritual abuse within faith communities, emotional and psychological manipulation, and the profound impact domestic violence has on children.
Today, Chyna is an advocate, author, speaker, and empowerment leader dedicated to helping survivors reclaim their voice and rebuild their lives.
She is a Board Certified Christian Counselor, International Holistic Transformation Coach, and AI Certified Consultant. She is also an emerging AI educator, teaching individuals and organizations how to use tools such as ChatGPT and Gamma AI to improve communication, productivity, and digital outreach.
In addition to her advocacy work, Chyna has over 40 years of experience as a professional plus-size model, where she has helped challenge traditional beauty standards while promoting confidence, dignity, and self-worth.
Chyna is also a contributing author to the book "Being Black in America," offering a close personal look at the lives of Black professionals and their challenges and successes in spite of systemic barriers.
Through the Purple Casket Campaign, Chyna continues to raise awareness, provide practical resources for survivors, and encourage communities to stand together to break the cycle of abuse.
"To help survivors move from silence to strength, from fear to faith, and from survival to significance."
Speaking Topics
Chyna McGarity speaks to churches, organizations, conferences, and community groups on topics including:
Domestic Violence Awareness & Prevention
Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship
Faith and Healing After Abuse
Life After Abuse: Rebuilding Self-Esteem
Supporting Survivors in the Community
Survivor Advocacy & Community Leadership
Professional Biography
For a full overview of Chyna McGarity's professional background, advocacy journey, and community leadership:
Media & Speaking Contact
For speaking engagements, media inquiries, partnerships, or advocacy initiatives:
Together we can raise awareness, support survivors, and help create safer communities.
Advocacy, Speaking & Education
Chyna McGarity provides education and advocacy programs for a wide range of organizations and communities.
Serves
- Churches
- Community organizations
- Schools and universities
- Nonprofit organizations
- Domestic violence awareness initiatives
Topics Include
- Domestic violence awareness and survivor support
- Healthy relationships and personal boundaries
- Resilience and healing after trauma
- Empowerment and personal growth
Our Vision
Through initiatives such as Warrior Survivor Support, Chyna works to create safe spaces where survivors can receive encouragement, guidance, and resources to help them rebuild their lives.
The Purple Casket Campaign continues this mission by expanding awareness, education, and survivor-centered support throughout the community.
From survival to healing — every survivor deserves a path forward.
Media, Advocacy & Public Appearances
The Purple Casket Campaign raises awareness about domestic violence through survivor advocacy, education, and community partnerships. Founder Chyna McGarity is a survivor advocate, author, speaker, and empowerment leader dedicated to helping survivors reclaim their lives.
Survivor Advocate Interview
Chyna shares her powerful story of survival and explains the mission behind the Purple Casket Campaign.
Media Conversations & Features
Professional Biography
View the professional background and advocacy journey of founder Chyna McGarity.
Press Kit Available Upon Request
Members of the media, event organizers, and organizations may request a press kit that includes: Founder Biography, Campaign Overview, Speaking Topics, Media Interviews, Professional Headshots, and Campaign Logos.
Media Contact
For interviews, speaking engagements, community partnerships, or press inquiries:
- Website: www.PurpleCasketCampaign.com
- Speaker & Media Contact: Chyna McGarity, Founder – Purple Casket Campaign
Media & Speaking
The Purple Casket Campaign works to raise awareness about domestic violence, amplify survivor voices, and educate communities about the realities of abuse. Through advocacy, public speaking, and community partnerships, the campaign seeks to break the silence surrounding domestic violence and empower survivors to reclaim their lives.
Founder Overview
Survivor Advocate
Chyna McGarity is a domestic violence survivor who transformed her personal journey into a mission of advocacy, education, and community empowerment through the Purple Casket Campaign.
Author & Speaker
Chyna is the author of multiple published works including Getting Well: Mind, Body & Spirit and You're On Stage! She speaks to churches, organizations, schools, and community groups on domestic violence awareness and survivor empowerment.
Certified Counselor & Coach
Chyna holds credentials as a Board Certified Christian Counselor, International Holistic Transformation Coach, and AI Certified Consultant & Trainer, with over 40 years of experience promoting confidence, resilience, and empowerment.
Recognition & Honors
Chyna McGarity's advocacy and survivor-centered work have been recognized by organizations committed to awareness, healing, and domestic violence prevention.
True Beauty Award Recognition
Clark Atlanta University — annual campaign against dating and domestic violence
Chyna McGarity was recognized through Clark Atlanta University's 'The Call to True Beauty' campaign for her voice, advocacy, and commitment to bringing awareness to dating and domestic violence. This recognition reflects her continued work to educate, uplift, and support survivors while helping communities confront abuse, promote healing, and inspire change.
Recognition received in 2015.
Johnson Products 'Shero' Nominee
Chyna McGarity was nominated by Johnson Products as the first 'Shero' — recognized as a domestic violence survivor and an inspiration to women. This honor reflects her strength, courage, and impact in using her story to encourage healing and hope in others.
Nominated in 2010.
Partnership Against Domestic Violence Honoree
Chyna McGarity was honored by Partnership Against Domestic Violence in recognition of her voice, advocacy, and commitment to bringing awareness and support to survivors of abuse.
Honored in 2009.
Speaking Engagements
Chyna McGarity provides educational presentations and keynote discussions for a wide range of audiences and organizations.
Audiences Served
Churches
Nonprofit Organizations
Schools and Universities
Community Groups
Conferences and Advocacy Events
Speaking Topics
Life After Abuse: Rebuilding Your Self-Esteem
Domestic Violence / Intimate Partner Violence – How Do You Know?
Healthy Relationships for Teens and Adults
Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship
Bullying in Today's Society
Stepping Onto the Stage of Life
Faith & Healing After Abuse
Community Advocacy and Prevention
To book Chyna McGarity for your event, contact:
Contact Purple Casket Campaign
We welcome questions, partnership opportunities, speaking invitations, and community outreach requests.
Purple Casket Campaign
For general inquiries, partnerships, survivor resources, or campaign information.
📞 Phone: 678-857-1616
📧 General Inquiries: info@purplecasketcampaign.com
📧 Partnerships: partners@purplecasketcampaign.com
📧 Volunteer: volunteer@purplecasketcampaign.com
📧 Donations: donations@purplecasketcampaign.com
📧 Support: support@purplecasketcampaign.com
🌐 Website: www.purplecasketcampaign.com
Speaker & Media Contact
Chyna McGarity
Founder, Purple Casket Campaign
For speaking engagements, interviews, conferences, church events, and community awareness programs.
📧 Media: media@purplecasketcampaign.com
🌐 Website: www.ChynaMcGarity.com
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Get Involved
You can help raise awareness and support survivors.
Together we can educate communities, support survivors, and help prevent domestic violence.
Books & Publications
Chyna McGarity's published works reflect a journey of truth, faith, healing, confidence, and purpose — featured in speaking engagements, workshops, and empowerment conversations.
Featured Publication
Being Black in America
Success in Spite of the Challenges – A Collection of Personal Stories | Edited by Linda Ellis Eastman
A close personal look at the lives of ten Black professionals and their challenges and successes in America. Through her voice and lived experience, Chyna brings depth, authenticity, and strength to this national conversation on resilience, perseverance, faith, leadership, and achievement.
This collection provides real stories of perseverance and success. Each contributor brings powerful insight into navigating challenges while achieving excellence. — Conference Host
Additional Publications
Women of Courage
An inspiring collection of stories highlighting faith, strength, and perseverance in the face of adversity.
Getting Well: Mind, Body & Spirit
A faith-centered guide to emotional, spiritual, and holistic restoration. Healing and renewal from the inside out.
You're on Stage! Image, Etiquette, Branding & Style
An empowering guide to showing up boldly, owning your voice, and walking confidently in purpose.
Why Corporate Support Matters
Domestic violence affects individuals across every community, profession, and socioeconomic background.
Corporate partnerships allow us to expand:
Community awareness campaigns
Survivor safety resources
Educational programs for youth and families
Faith-based and community engagement
Technology and transportation assistance for survivors
Together, we can save lives and bring hope to those who need it most.
Community Impact Goals
The Cobb Shines Purple initiative seeks to mobilize the entire community to stand against domestic violence.
Lighting Homes & Businesses
Lighting thousands of homes and businesses with purple lights during Domestic Violence Awareness Month
Community Engagement
Engaging churches, schools, businesses, and civic organizations in awareness efforts
Educational Resources
Providing educational resources for families and youth
Survivor Support
Expanding survivor support services and safety resources
Prevention & Healthy Relationships
Increasing community conversation around prevention and healthy relationships
Visibility for Corporate Sponsors
Corporate partners will receive public recognition and community visibility through the campaign.
Recognition on the Purple Casket Campaign website
Corporate logo placement on campaign materials
Social media recognition and partner spotlights
Media coverage and press releases
Participation in community awareness events
Recognition during Domestic Violence Awareness Month activities
Corporate Sponsorship Opportunities
Organizations can support the campaign through several partnership opportunities.
Presenting Sponsor
Top-level corporate partner supporting the overall campaign.
Recognition may include:
- Featured logo placement on campaign materials
- Recognition in media announcements
- Sponsorship recognition at campaign events
- Corporate leadership participation in awareness activities
Community Champion Sponsor
Partners who support awareness and education initiatives.
Recognition may include:
- Logo placement on campaign website
- Social media recognition
- Participation in community awareness events
Community Supporter
Businesses and organizations helping expand awareness within the community.
Recognition may include:
- Listing on the campaign website
- Community partner recognition
Community Collaboration
The success of this initiative depends on strong partnerships across the community.
Local businesses
Faith-based organizations
Schools and universities
Community organizations
Law enforcement agencies
Healthcare providers
Government leaders
Advocacy organizations
Join the Movement
Ending domestic violence requires courage, compassion, and collective action.
You Can Support the Purple Casket Campaign By:
Sharing awareness resources
Volunteering with community initiatives
Partnering with the campaign
Sponsoring awareness programs
Advocating for survivors in your community
Together, we can help survivors find safety, healing, and hope.
📧 info@purplecasketcampaign.com
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Contact for Corporate Partnerships
For partnership or sponsorship inquiries, please contact:
Name: Chyna McGarity
Title: Founder – Purple Casket Campaign
Website: www.purplecasketcampaign.com
Corporate Sponsorship Levels
Presenting Sponsor | $25,000+
Top-level campaign partner with premier recognition.
Benefits: Prominent logo placement on campaign website • Recognition in press releases and media coverage • Featured social media recognition • Logo on campaign marketing materials • Recognition at campaign kickoff and events • Opportunity for executive participation
Platinum Sponsor | $10,000 – $24,999
Major corporate partner supporting community awareness.
Benefits: Logo placement on campaign website • Social media recognition • Recognition in campaign communications and materials • Invitation to campaign events
Gold Sponsor | $5,000 – $9,999
Supporter helping expand community awareness and education.
Benefits: Logo placement on campaign website • Social media recognition • Recognition in campaign partner listings
Silver Sponsor | $1,000 – $4,999
Community partner helping bring awareness to domestic violence prevention.
Benefits: Listing on campaign website • Recognition as a campaign supporter
Community Partner | Up to $999
Local businesses and organizations showing support for awareness.
Benefits: Listing on campaign website • Recognition as a community partner
Donate
Your support helps expand survivor advocacy, educational outreach, resource connections, and community awareness efforts that serve individuals and families impacted by domestic violence.
Fiscal Sponsorship
Purple Casket Campaign operates with the support of our fiscal sponsor, Woman At The Well Transition Center, a nonprofit organization based in Atlanta, Georgia. Through this partnership, donations supporting Purple Casket Campaign programs and survivor advocacy initiatives are processed through Woman At The Well Transition Center. This fiscal sponsorship allows Purple Casket Campaign to expand its outreach, education, and survivor support efforts while ensuring nonprofit financial oversight and accountability.
Suggested Giving Options
$25
Monthly Support
Helps sustain ongoing awareness and outreach efforts.
$100
One-Time Gift
Supports survivor-centered education and community resource connection.
$2,000
Corporate Support
Helps expand campaign visibility, outreach, and collaborative community impact.
$4,000
Legacy Gift
Creates a lasting investment in awareness, advocacy, and future growth.
To donate securely, please give through our fiscal sponsor. Include 'Purple Casket Campaign' in the donation notes or memo so funds are designated to support Purple Casket Campaign programs and services. Additional details are available upon request, or you may reach us at donations@purplecasketcampaign.com.
Our Shared Commitment
Supporting survivors of domestic violence
Providing resources for healing and restoration
Raising awareness about abuse prevention
Helping women and families rebuild their lives with dignity and hope
Resources
Comprehensive Guides and Tools
Explore our extensive collection of educational resources, including detailed guides on recognizing the signs of domestic violence, accessing support services, and empowering survivors to reclaim their lives. Discover a wealth of practical tools and actionable steps to make a real difference in your community.
Survivor Support and Advocacy
- Connect with our network of compassionate support specialists who provide confidential counseling and referrals to local resources.
- Learn about our advocacy initiatives and how you can join us in amplifying the voices of domestic violence survivors.
Inspiring Stories and Testimonials
Hear directly from survivors who have transformed their lives through the support and empowerment of the PurpleCasketCampaign.com. Their stories of resilience and hope will inspire you to join the movement and make a lasting impact.
Download Safety Plans
Download and complete these fillable safety plans privately. Created by The Chyna McGarity Group / Purple Casket Campaign.
Campaign Growth Roadmap
Where we are — and where we're going.
Level 1: Awareness Campaign (Now)
Clear mission and bold calls-to-action. Resource hub and hotline visibility. Mailing list growth and community presence.
Level 2: Structured Advocacy Platform (Next)
Confidential support request intake. Volunteer activation and training pipeline. Sponsor/partner packages with clear tiers. Consistent event calendar and outreach toolkit.
Level 3: Recognized Community Movement (Goal)
Sponsor recognition and public partners. Annual signature campaign — 'Cobb County Shines Purple'. Media kit and official press page. Quarterly impact updates and annual impact report. Advisory council — community and survivor-informed.
Every action you take — joining the mailing list, volunteering, partnering, or donating — moves us closer to becoming a recognized force for change in our community.
A Message to Survivors
You are not alone, and your voice matters.
Healing is a journey, and you deserve safety, dignity, and a compassionate community. We stand with you in reclaiming your strength and building a future defined by hope, not violence.
If you are in immediate danger, please call 911. For confidential, 24/7 support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).
Take Action
Every action — no matter how small — helps strengthen awareness, support survivors, and build safer communities.
You are not alone. Help is available. Hope is real.
Stay Connected
Join our mailing list for updates on awareness efforts, community events, resources, and ways to support the mission.